The Deep Satisfaction of Mini-Goals
Posted on Apr 14th, 2006
by
Maile
Setting long-term goals is, of course, a great way to keep your life moving in a positive direction, to help you achieve all the things you want to achieve.
However, goal setting is useless unless you can keep those goals in mind now, unless you continually ask yourself whether what you're doing contributes to reaching that goal. The trouble with this is at least two-fold:
1- It's difficult to keep several far off goals in mind at once, and
2- Even in you keep your goals in mind, it can be difficult to know whether your actions are in line with them.
I've taken a few steps to deal with (1). First, I've narrowed my long-term goals down to three mid-term (about five years from now) goals. Second, I've written them down in bold letters, framed them, and hung them on my wall. Seriously. In fact, I took down the wall clock and replaced it with my goals. Every time habit turns my head to check the time, I see my list of goals.
But this does not resolve problem (2). For example, one of my goals is to finish and publish my novel. The list on my wall keeps this near the fore of my mind, but I'm still not always sure whether a given action of mine is keeping me on track. For example, it may be true that going for a run will improve my brain function, which in turn will make it easier for me when I sit down at my computer to write. But it may also be true that the time spent running would have been better spent actually writing.
Reframing your goals as habit-changes may be one way to overcome (2), and that's what I did automatically with the other two goals on my list. But with my novel, my goal is not to simply write every day. My goal is to finish. And publish.
Here is where mini-goals come in. Setting them happened for me accidentally when I ran into Randy Ingermason's Snowflake Method for writing a novel. Though I'm much further along in my writing than I think most members of his target audience, I decided to pull myself away from my routine and give his steps a try. Writing in steps meant, basically, setting mini-goals.
And you know what? It was deeply satisfying. Instead of each day knowing I'd not yet reached my goal, each day wondering if I was really on track, I finished each day knowing I'd accomplished a specific task I'd set out to do. The idea of mini-goals is nothing new, but it was something I'd fogotten. If you find yourself slipping away from your goals, you may want to give it a try.
However, goal setting is useless unless you can keep those goals in mind now, unless you continually ask yourself whether what you're doing contributes to reaching that goal. The trouble with this is at least two-fold:
1- It's difficult to keep several far off goals in mind at once, and
2- Even in you keep your goals in mind, it can be difficult to know whether your actions are in line with them.
I've taken a few steps to deal with (1). First, I've narrowed my long-term goals down to three mid-term (about five years from now) goals. Second, I've written them down in bold letters, framed them, and hung them on my wall. Seriously. In fact, I took down the wall clock and replaced it with my goals. Every time habit turns my head to check the time, I see my list of goals.
But this does not resolve problem (2). For example, one of my goals is to finish and publish my novel. The list on my wall keeps this near the fore of my mind, but I'm still not always sure whether a given action of mine is keeping me on track. For example, it may be true that going for a run will improve my brain function, which in turn will make it easier for me when I sit down at my computer to write. But it may also be true that the time spent running would have been better spent actually writing.
Reframing your goals as habit-changes may be one way to overcome (2), and that's what I did automatically with the other two goals on my list. But with my novel, my goal is not to simply write every day. My goal is to finish. And publish.
Here is where mini-goals come in. Setting them happened for me accidentally when I ran into Randy Ingermason's Snowflake Method for writing a novel. Though I'm much further along in my writing than I think most members of his target audience, I decided to pull myself away from my routine and give his steps a try. Writing in steps meant, basically, setting mini-goals.
And you know what? It was deeply satisfying. Instead of each day knowing I'd not yet reached my goal, each day wondering if I was really on track, I finished each day knowing I'd accomplished a specific task I'd set out to do. The idea of mini-goals is nothing new, but it was something I'd fogotten. If you find yourself slipping away from your goals, you may want to give it a try.







oooooooOOOOoooooo! A novel! How exciting. I am a reader already, I cannot wait to be a READER of your novel. Oh God, what joy abounds. I love novels.
I have mini-goals too:
1. get 100 million dollars and equate self with ‘what self has’ forevermore
2. get famous off that four quadrant actualization
3. win @ music
4. win @ life.
5. win @ winning at losing when winning and losing
6. be an actor
7. be a English gentleman
8. talk to aliens.
9. cope with the narcisstic desire to talk with aliens
10. recognize the Kosmic feminine if/when she walks through my door (because I’m going to marry it… yes it… back to that uber-impersonal narcissism)
11. say too much in Maile’s comment about personal pathologies
12. mention pathologies to try and paper over the prevelance of them while exemplifying a pathology (the pathology of intense scrutiny of every move self makes, and then commenting on it) as you do so
13. write goals that are fulfilled even as they are written, like number 12
14. number 13 is particulary difficult, post 13..
15. finish writing with dignity in tact.
16. sabotage myself in the effort of accomplishing 15, while simultaneously fulfilling number 13 post 13…
16. enumclaw really happened (~C4 will know)
Brian David
Ps: I’m reeeally looking forward to the novel!
Those are your mini-goals? Sheesh. Mine were more like 'finish character sketches by friday'. Can't imagine what your long-term goals must be.
You know my family lives right near Enumclaw, WA.
LOL - Enumclaw… I think it’s the new Babylonian horror where moral bankruptcy abounds. Just Kidding… seems like a nice place.
I guess I kind of got going and forgot those were supposed to be mini-goals. I guess those are a little big for mini-goals. lol…
Awesome post, Maile! I like setting mini-goals, myself (though I haven't in a while…thanks for the reminder!) but the idea of putting them Bold, hanging inan obvious place (even replacing something that used to be there) is sweet. Especially replacing something like a clock, which probably collected dozens of habit-glances a day anyway.
Good luck on the novel!! You gotta keep us posted on how it goes. Just keeping with the “write every day” goal will prolly get you rockin' in no time. Wow, I know an author!